Almost all articles on how to choose a get well soon gift will suggest that you should get chocolates, stuffed animals, and a greeting card. This information is applicable only if your friend is recuperating from an illness at home. However, if your friend is in the oncology ward in Mount Elizabeth Hospital, on the maternity ward of KK Hospital, or even on the ICU ward of SGH Hospital, then such recommendations would be totally inappropriate – in fact, disastrous since flowers, due to their scent, are forbidden there; and balloons, which could cause an allergic reaction among others, are not allowed.
Match the gift to where they're recovering
If they’re at home recovering from a cold, flu, or minor surgery
This is an easy case. A simple get well soon basket containing herbal tea, some easily digestible snacks, a bouquet of flowers, and a hand-written card suffices. Be sure to avoid spicy or difficult to chew foods if they have undergone any throat and dental procedures.
If they’re in a Singapore hospital — general ward
In general wards at KK, Mt Elizabeth, SGH, NUH, Raffles, and Gleneagles hospitals, all fresh flowers except those strongly scented (e.g., lilies, gardenias, freesias, and hyacinths) are allowed. Since bedside tables are quite small (about 30 cm), a smaller arrangement is preferred over a basket. Fresh fruit can be added if the patient is allowed to eat it or avoided if it’s a special case.
If they’re in ICU, oncology, transplant, or a high-restriction ward
Singapore hospitals don’t allow any fresh cut flowers in the ICU and other critical wards. Latex balloons are strictly prohibited because of the risks posed to other patients in the ward due to allergies. Preserved flower arrangements, wellness gifts (hand cream, lip balm, socks), books and magazines, and food only if the family allows it.
If they’re recovering at home after a longer hospital stay
No restrictions apply now that they’re home. They can have large bouquets of flowers, gourmet food baskets, flowers with chocolate. Anything under the “Welcome Home” banner would suit perfectly. Delivery should ideally be made after two to three days of their discharge from the hospital so they’ve had enough time to settle.
What NOT to send to a hospital ward in Singapore
Strong-scented flowers
Beautiful flowers like lilies, freesias, gardenias, hyacinths, and tuberoses are not welcome in a small ward room with many patients sharing the space. Their strong scent may cause nausea among patients undergoing chemotherapy or recovering from surgery. If you wish to send flowers, choose unscented or light-scented types such as orchids, carnations, alstroemerias, or gerberas.
Latex balloons
Most Singapore hospitals prohibit latex balloons due to the possibility of an allergic reaction among nearby patients.
Mylar (foil) balloons are generally permitted. In case you wish to send a balloon to brighten the ward room, check first if you are allowed to do so — else, consider sending a small plush instead.
Anything that takes up the whole bedside table
The bedside table in a Singapore hospital is usually small. Your large bouquet looks beautiful in your photo, but it may block the patient’s water bottle, mobile phone, and tissue box. Opt for vertical and compact floral arrangements over expansive and broad ones.
Foods that conflict with their diet
Diabetic patients, surgical patients following a liquid diet, patients with allergies, and cancer patients undergoing chemotherapy with dietary restrictions are some examples.
Assume nothing and either enquire from the family about any suitable foods or send non-edible items. Fancy snack hampers make wonderful gifts for fit individuals and awful ones for a kidney patient on a low-sodium diet.
Cut flowers in restricted wards
ICU, oncology, transplant, neonatal — bans on fresh-cut flowers vary by hospital. For instance, cut flowers are prohibited at SGH oncology wards, allowed at NUH with restrictions, and permitted at private hospitals. In case of doubts, send a preserved floral arrangement (lasts many months, no infection risks) or skip flowers altogether.
What to write on a get well soon card
Match the tone to the illness
If it’s a mild case – the flu, a sprain, a cold – go for humour. ‘We know you are actually sleeping’ works well. If it is a major surgery, chemotherapy, a hospital stay of over a week, then humour rarely does the trick. A nice, ‘thinking about you, we’re around anytime if you need help’ works best.
Match the depth to your relationship
Within a close family member or partner: talk about how much you miss them specifically. ‘The dog is waiting for you outside at six’ carries more weight than ‘we miss you.’ With a co-worker or distant relation: be caring, yet concise. ‘Wishing you speedy recovery and I will visit once you feel like visitors.
Avoid these card-writing mistakes
When to deliver — and when to wait
Avoid hospital rest hours
The vast majority of wards in Singapore hospitals have designated rest periods: 12:30 PM–2:30 PM (afternoon nap period), and post-9 PM. Delivery of flowers during such periods is either held back at the nurses’ station until further notice, or returned to us. The default time slot for hospital orders is 10 AM–12 PM, and 3 PM–6 PM. Our 24/7 florist service takes care of ward-aware scheduling on your behalf – no need to inform us of such specifics.
First 24 hours after admission — usually wait
They will be undergoing tests, stitching up, acclimatising to the surroundings. The family will be in shock. Flowers delivered on day 2 or 3 make more sense, at this stage.
Day 2–7 of hospitalisation — peak gift moment
This is the time boredom creeps in, and the well-wishes from day 1 have worn off. Flowers delivered at this stage would be highly appreciated. For longer stays, another delivery on week 2 or 3 will be particularly well-received – very few people will bother to send anything after that point.
After discharge — welcome home gestures
What to send by who they are to you
For a parent or close family member
A more extravagant and longer-term gift such as a flower subscription, whereby a bouquet comes every week through the period of recuperation, since one-time flower sending implies less attention. In combination, use a wellness hamper for the very first bouquet.
For a colleague or workmate
An itemable and modest gift that can easily be taken home after leaving the hospital – choose a medium-sized hamper ($80-$100), as well as handwrite a message in the card instead of choosing something too elaborate or expensive.
For a child in hospital
Flowers should never be sent to a kids’ room since they are prohibited. Choose a soft toy, a color book with pens, as well as the same message as before but in large letters for a kid. It’s always good to make sure about the restrictions by asking a kid’s parent first.
For a new mother in maternity recovery
In this case, we have a different situation. Instead of gifts for babies or toys, it’s best to purchase things which will create comfort for a woman after birth. Choose some soft items such as socks, lip balm, lactation tea if necessary, etc. As for a baby hamper, it should be sent separately, while also making sure the gifts are small.
For someone in ICU or critical care
Always send to a patient’s relatives or friends – those who have stayed in a waiting room. Such gifts can contain easy-to-eat food, coffee, and a message from your side.
Quick answers to common questions
Can flowers be sent to ICU in Singapore?
Most Singapore hospitals ban fresh-cut flowers in ICU, oncology, transplant, and neonatal wards. Preserved flowers (dried, no infection risk) are usually allowed. Always confirm with the ward before sending. Public hospitals (SGH, NUH, KK) tend to be stricter than private hospitals.
How much should I spend on a get well gift?
Ranges that work in Singapore: $50–$80 for a colleague or distant relative, $80–$150 for a close friend, $150+ for immediate family. Get well soon hampers from That Flower Shop start at $80. Don’t over-spend — it can feel intrusive. Don’t under-spend — it can feel obligatory.
Can I deliver get well flowers same-day in Singapore?
Yes — order before 3 PM and we deliver same-day across Singapore, including direct to ward at every major hospital. For urgent same-day needs, our express flower delivery offers 90-minute delivery windows.
What if I don’t know which ward they’re in?
Call the family. Hospital reception generally won’t give out ward information for privacy reasons, and the gift will be returned if it can’t be located. Get the ward name and bed number from someone close to the patient before you order.
Should I visit instead of sending a gift?
Both, ideally. A gift on day 2 (when you can’t visit yet because of family-only restrictions) and a visit on day 5 (when restrictions usually ease) is the strongest combination. If you can only do one, the visit means more — but always check with the family before turning up.

